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You've been to every party in town, but Mr Right still hasn't crossed your path. DON'T PANIC! You can draw love as easily as iron filings to a magnet - when you know how.

If you really want to ...

But watch out how you use these methods - because they work!

first you'll need to get over your ex ...

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Chapter One

When someone tells me that putting a football-sized rose quartz in my love corner is going to help me find Mr Right, I'm going to test it. If someone says that Jupiter moving into my astrological seventh house means I'm most likely to fall in love, I'm going to believe it when I see it.

In this crazy so-called new age there are all kinds of claims made. For example, we're often told by spooks and mystics that we create our own reality with our thoughts.

Sometimes I really think this is true.

* For example, a few years ago, I remember sitting in a bungalow on Ko Phi Phi in Thailand and announcing to my female travelling companion that I was totally in the mood for a holiday romance (I hadn't had one since I was about 14). The next day I met the most delicious Frenchman, who became my constant beach companion for several sun-soaked weeks.

* For another example, I announced to my flatmate that I'd love a Burmese cat - the next day I got a call from a friend (who doesn't know my flatmate from Adam) asking me if I knew of anyone who wanted to take in a lovely little Burmese kitty called Blaze (she's currently lolling on my bed - Blaze, that is).

* For a final example, I once drew a picture of the sort of flat I'd love to live in (near the water with a balcony and view), and a few months later I moved into a beachside pad which looks almost exactly like my drawing.

So was I announcing my desires to the Universe or simply predicting my own future? Can declaring what you desire (showing it, writing it, drawing it) really get you what you want? That this is possible is one of the premises of this book.

GET YERSELF AN 'OLOGY'

If you've spent any time at all dabbling in the so-called new age, you'll know that there are dozens of 'olgies' out there - astrology, numerology, pyramidology, crystal-olgy, all promising to deliver your heart's desire. You can (allegedly) draw your desired residence into existence. You can (allegedly) feng your home for cash. You can (allegedly) use crystals to improve your chances of getting your dream job.

I want to spell out two things here:

I've seen these methods work in my own life, indubitably. Either that or I have been the subject of an unbelievable number of uncanny coincidences.

I have no idea if these methods work because 'they just do', or if they work because when you're serious about making a dream come true - and you put in an effort - all that channelled energy inevitably brings positive results.

THE EAST MEETS WEST BIT

Western psychiatry argues that the way we process and analyse information can shape our lives. New age-ology says we manifest our lives with our thoughts.

Imagine the scene: your partner leaves you and you think 'Gee, well, I'll be able to get on with a new life now'. Now imagine another scene: your partner leaves you and you think 'God, this is the end of the world, I'll never be with anyone else'.

How much do you think your thoughts on the matter will affect your future experiences? My answer to that questions is: a lot.

That's how Western theory suggests that we create our own reality with our thoughts.

On the other side of the coin, new age exponents say that we create our own reality with our thoughts because our thoughts are moreorless like electrical impulses which go out into the world and manifest, when we think them often enough and believe them deeply enough.

Regardless of which theory you subscribe to, the methods in this book give you a very good chance of helping you meet Mr Wonderful, Mr Gorgeous and Mr Really Very Nice. Maybe, possibly, even Mr Perfect. If you put in the effort:

For example, if you do as suggested on page xx and stand under the shower and lather yourself up and swear to yourself (and the Universe) that you're washing away your blocks to love, will you have the courage to face up to what those blocks might be, and then really tackle them?

If you have a disastrous relationship with your father or mother which you know needs fixing before you can have a relationship with any other man or woman, will you work on that?

If you feng your house for romance, will you then accept all the invitations which come your way, so you have a chance to get out there and meet Mr Delicious? As my wise friend Anita once said to me: 'I can't understand why some people seem to think Mr Right is going to come and knock on their front door while they're watching ER…'

Quite.

But if our thoughts create our reality, how come there are so many single people out there who say they want nothing more than to be in a fulfilling relationship? One theory is that although they say they want a lover, they're really actually scared of intimacy, or they're too busy/exhausted/selfish to share their lives, or they're still in love with their ex.

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